So I brought my family along to the courthouse that day, assuming we’d knock this out real fast and go get breakfast. I guess I don’t go to courthouses often, because the place was packed by 7am and I was forced to wait an indeterminate period before I could be seen by a judge. I said “babe, just leave him with me” and she went to do her own thing and I sat in the courtroom with my wailing baby. I wasn’t neglecting him, I continued to comfort him, but he was just in one of those moods. Within just a few minutes one of the lawyers walked up and said “can we go ahead and get you out of here?”. And that’s how I turned a certain four to six hour wait at the courthouse into a fifteen to thirty minute appointment.
Yep. He’s being nice letting you stay there and Not paying when you start working again he wants his Money. That said unless you have Savings you probably won’t be able to paying. Hence is the time where you ask him if he’ll except a extra 200–300 a month til the back rent is caught up. A good landlord would be willing to do that. They want a good tenet in their house. It’s completely up to him though be honest because your also going to have a pay your other back bills ( power, water, gas etc ) if you haven’t been paying them either.
Your child has a desk full of unfinished work because you keep her home when she isn’t sick, pull her out early so you can go somewhere, let her come late … how is she supposed to learn anything or finish anything? This is why from August to March she only moved from reading level A to C … in first grade!!! At some point, your child is going to be a functioning adult. He needs the opportunity to struggle with self-care skills in order to master them. At some point, he will need to be able to put on his own jacket and tie his own shoes. No time like the present!
My mother has always had an extremely hard time controlling her anger. Those are the strongest memories I have of my mother. Screaming at me, my sister, or my father over the simplest of things.
On top of this, she is a Jehovah’s Witness, which is a religion I highly disagree with. She believes that she is saved by Jesus and Jehovah. She truly, in her soul, thinks that she is not mentally ill and everyone around her is the sick one. On multiple occasions I have been told that I am Bi-Polar and need to be on lithium. Her behavior is sporadic, unpredictable, and extremely volatile.
Before I go deeper into that here is some back story. I was arrested for selling weed and mushrooms to my friends. I had to plea to felony charges and am serving a 3 year probation. My partner also got arrested because we lived together. We decided to leave our apartment and move in with our mothers respectively. My mom pushed and pushed it. She didn’t want me there. She made it known I was a disgrace to her and her beliefs. My grandmother was the one who cared enough to convince her to let me stay there on a very cheap rent. The hard thing about it is, it can go unseen for months. This last stretch was about 5 months or so. Recently I was beginning to feel as though I was getting into a great groove. Focusing on my health and exercising more, getting my credit in check so I can have more options in life, starting my own business. It was all ripped away.
I walked up with my crying baby, showed the judge my insurance card, signed a piece of paper, and I was out of there in a flash. If your Mom works she gets to do whatever she wants with her money including a sommelier. If you are paying your own way and do not live at home what you do with your money is your own business. If she’s paying for your delivery services now, what you need to do is go out and get a job so you can pay for whatever you want, including grocery delivery and meal baskets.